Faizel Patel, Radio Islam News – 17-10-2017

Reports of school children being abused has come under the spotlight, especially in parliament after MP’s heard there is a “very high” incidence of bullying at South African schools.

The emergence of several videos of pupils assaulting each other has prompted the basic Education Department to brief its parliamentary oversight committee on strategies to deal with school violence, such as corporal punishment and various forms of bullying.

But how do parents detect if their child is being abused or bullied.

Abuse comes in various forms, including emotional, physical and sexual.

There are warning signs parents can be on the lookout for, including, but not limited to:

•  Unexplained bruises, scratches, and cuts on the body
• The child may seem sad, moody, or depressed
• The child can show signs of withdrawal
•  Loss of appetite
• Trouble sleeping
• May demonstrate a poor self-esteem
• May have suicidal thoughts or attempts to commit suicide may even occur
• A loss of interest in or refusal to go to school and extramural activities
• There could be frequent complaints of illness to avoid attending school
• A sudden decrease in academic performance.

Parents should develop an open and communicative relationship with their children. Parents should also talk to their children about their day at school on a daily basis.

Incidents of abuse should be reported to the South African Police Service.

Gender based violence victims can call the toll free number on 0800 428 428 (0800 GBV GBV) and will be able to speak to a social worker for assistance and counselling.

Callers can also request a social worker from the command centre to contact them by dialling *120*7867# (free) from a cell phone.

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